Below are five statements that are more likely to cause more harm to your relationship;
Every couple have arguments and misunderstandings. However, this
is one thing that brings them closer; but if handled wrongly, it
could put an end to a relationship. It is important to fight fair and
communicate your feelings effectively instead of just lashing out.
1. “You Always” or “You Never”: You might feel the urge to say something like, “you never respect me” or “You always choose your friends over me,” during
a fight when trying to make your point. But this will only end up
making your partner aggressive and you will be unable to get the
reaction you were hoping for.
2. “It’s over”: No matter how hurt or angry you are,
you never end a relationship in the middle of an argument because
chances are, you do not really mean this. Throwing words like “divorce”
or “break up” like it is nothing is certainly not the way to go.
Ending a relationship takes careful consideration and discussion. And
if you are used to throwing those words around when you do not mean
them, you will be left shell-shocked if, one day, you partner takes you
at your words and walks out.
3. “Can’t you be more like..”: No one likes to be compared to other people. It does not matter if you are trying to make a point. Saying things like “Why can’t you be more like my friend’s wife/husband..” will not go down well with your partner.
If there is a character trait you need him/her to work on, just express
that to them instead of using someone else as an example. Nobody is
perfect. You chose your partner for who they are so it is hurtful when
it sounds like you are wishing they were someone else.
4. “I do not want to talk about this anymore”: Walking
out on a fight or just abruptly shutting your partner down while in the
middle of an argument or discussion will only serve to hurt them more.
If you must postpone the conversation, do it in such a way that you both
come to the agreement to discuss some other time.
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5. “I’m sorry, but…”: If you are going to apologize
about something, do it wholeheartedly and completely. Do not do cancel
it out by attaching condition to it, like saying “I apologize but you really should not speak to me that way”. This will only extend the argument.
After apologizing, gently let your partner know if they have done
something to make you feel bad. This way, they also get the chance to
completely apologize and everything is right with your relationship
again.
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Why Are You Still Dating the Wrong Person?
You know your partner’s not the one for you, but why are you still together? We’re here to shed some light on this common relationship conundrum.
In today’s fast paced culture, it is easier than ever to find potential dating partners. With dating sites like Eharmony.com and Match.com, and apps like Tinder, all you need to do is create a user name, and log on to browse literally thousands of sexy singles.
So, you would think that because of the advances in dating, it would be easier to get out of a relationship that no longer works. However, many people still find themselves staying in a relationship with the wrong person for much longer than they should.
Why do people stay in relationships past their expiration date?
Every relationship has its own reasons for staying afloat. But how come a lot of people insist on patching things up instead of abandoning ship in favor of something better?
#1 Habit. Human beings are creatures of habit. Whether it is your friend Sarah going to Starbucks every morning at seven thirty, or your cousin Matt watching the same television show at nine p.m. on Thursday, people often repeat the same patterns of behavior. Dating is no exception, and once a boyfriend or girlfriend becomes integrated in your daily routine, the simple ritual of habit can keep them there for way longer than necessary.
#2 Fear of breakups. Anyone who has ever been through a breakup knows that they can be a rollercoaster of potentially traumatic emotions. A boyfriend or girlfriend, even if he or she isn’t perfect for you, can still provide a significant amount of comfort.
The simple act of cuddling, or watching TV on the couch together can provide general feelings of connection and intimacy that are hard to replicate in the single world. Breakups cause the source of these comforting feelings to disappear. But don’t worry, ice cream is there to step up and fill the void during your breakup! So is chocolate.
#3 Fear of the unknown. When you enter into a long term relationship, it can really alter your life. You end up factoring your partner into your schedule in many ways. Before you know it, a large part of your life includes this person.
So, if you are contemplating breaking up after you have made all of these changes to accommodate them into your schedule, there is a potentially large amount of change that will happen once that person is no longer there. This can be scary at first, but keep in mind that sometimes, change is very good for you.
#4 Denial. Sometimes, people simply refuse to accept the problems that their partner has. After all, who wants to face the fact that your boyfriend only showers once a week, or that your girlfriend has a habit of calling your mom a bitch.
These problems can be a real pain in the neck, and it can be easier to just deny their existence, rather than deal with them. However, if you deny accepting them for too long, they could keep you in the relationship way past its natural end date.
#5 Settling. Dating can be frustrating. If you go for a length of time without finding someone you really like, then there can be a strong temptation to settle for someone you aren’t all that thrilled about.
The benefit of settling is that you have someone whom you at least like a little bit. But the problem with it is that you never feel fully satisfied in the relationship. So, you end up feeling like you are selling yourself short, and that’s no fun.
#6 Being too busy. Life has a habit of becoming busy. Between work, school, socializing, hot yoga, manicures, pedicures, and everything else, life can move quickly. Sometimes, even if a relationship isn’t satisfying you, there can be a temptation to stay in it, simply because you are too busy to start dating again.
Dating takes time and energy. But then again, so do relationships. Wouldn’t it be a whole lot easier to spend your time and energy finding someone who’s right for you, instead of spending that same amount of effort to make a mediocre relationship survive?
#7 Guilt. Getting out of a relationship can mean hurting your partner when you break up. For some people, this is hard to do. It also doesn’t help if your partner guilt trips you with sad texts and Facebook statuses. But no relationship will ever survive if it’s based solely on guilt. You’d be accused of being a worse person if you stick around and string your partner along, despite the fact that you’ve wanted to get out for a long time.
#8 Not wanting to admit you were wrong. Occasionally when you start dating someone, your friends will tell you that he is “definitely not right for you.” But you don’t care, because it’s your life, and you’ll do what you want. However, four months later, you realize that everything they said was actually right, and you were wrong. Facing up to this reality can be a bit embarrassing. But it can also be necessary. So, just brace yourself for some annoying, “I told you so’s,” and you’ll get through it.
#9 Sexual attraction. Despite the fact that your partner may be an emotional wet blanket, he or she may still be a total hottie. So, while your partner might not be meeting your emotional needs, your physical needs might still be getting met to the fullest. Although good in the short term, in the long term, this type of situation can be a trap. Watch out for this.
#10 Everyone else likes your partner. The opinions of friends and family can have a significant impact on decision making. If everyone around you likes the person whom you are dating, and they tell you to stay with that person, then it can definitely affect how you feel about the situation.
For example, say that your best friend tells you that he or she thinks you should stay with your current partner. That is most likely going to have some influence on your decision to stay with your partner or not. The more people around you who like the person, the more difficult it can be to break up with him or her, even if you know that it’s the right thing to do.
#11 You think your partner might change. From time to time, you might date someone whom you like, but who has certain qualities that you wish were different. Hoping and waiting for these qualities to change can be a dead end. People usually don’t change, unless they want to change, and expecting them to do so for you is a tricky path to take.
#12 You are waiting for them to propose. The allure of having the ultimate commitment, marriage, as a part of your life can tempt you into staying with a person when you should just move on. Perhaps you think that if you could just get married, then everything would be worth it. You want a beautiful wedding, stability, and let’s not forget that fabulous diamond ring, so you overlook the fact that he isn’t ready for marriage.
Staying with someone who isn’t ready for marriage out of a hope that he will propose one day, is a risky gamble to take. Meanwhile, your perfect Mr. Right, who is ready and willing to give you the fairytale happy ending that you are looking for, could be waiting just around the corner. Do you really want to keep waiting on Mr. Commitment Issues.
Settling is a disease that plagues many an unhappy relationship. If you know for a fact that your relationship is doomed, cut the cord now, instead of prolonging your pain. Don’t wait on a miracle to cure your relationship!
In today’s fast paced culture, it is easier than ever to find potential dating partners. With dating sites like Eharmony.com and Match.com, and apps like Tinder, all you need to do is create a user name, and log on to browse literally thousands of sexy singles.
So, you would think that because of the advances in dating, it would be easier to get out of a relationship that no longer works. However, many people still find themselves staying in a relationship with the wrong person for much longer than they should.
Why do people stay in relationships past their expiration date?
Every relationship has its own reasons for staying afloat. But how come a lot of people insist on patching things up instead of abandoning ship in favor of something better?
#1 Habit. Human beings are creatures of habit. Whether it is your friend Sarah going to Starbucks every morning at seven thirty, or your cousin Matt watching the same television show at nine p.m. on Thursday, people often repeat the same patterns of behavior. Dating is no exception, and once a boyfriend or girlfriend becomes integrated in your daily routine, the simple ritual of habit can keep them there for way longer than necessary.
#2 Fear of breakups. Anyone who has ever been through a breakup knows that they can be a rollercoaster of potentially traumatic emotions. A boyfriend or girlfriend, even if he or she isn’t perfect for you, can still provide a significant amount of comfort.
The simple act of cuddling, or watching TV on the couch together can provide general feelings of connection and intimacy that are hard to replicate in the single world. Breakups cause the source of these comforting feelings to disappear. But don’t worry, ice cream is there to step up and fill the void during your breakup! So is chocolate.
#3 Fear of the unknown. When you enter into a long term relationship, it can really alter your life. You end up factoring your partner into your schedule in many ways. Before you know it, a large part of your life includes this person.
So, if you are contemplating breaking up after you have made all of these changes to accommodate them into your schedule, there is a potentially large amount of change that will happen once that person is no longer there. This can be scary at first, but keep in mind that sometimes, change is very good for you.
#4 Denial. Sometimes, people simply refuse to accept the problems that their partner has. After all, who wants to face the fact that your boyfriend only showers once a week, or that your girlfriend has a habit of calling your mom a bitch.
These problems can be a real pain in the neck, and it can be easier to just deny their existence, rather than deal with them. However, if you deny accepting them for too long, they could keep you in the relationship way past its natural end date.
#5 Settling. Dating can be frustrating. If you go for a length of time without finding someone you really like, then there can be a strong temptation to settle for someone you aren’t all that thrilled about.
The benefit of settling is that you have someone whom you at least like a little bit. But the problem with it is that you never feel fully satisfied in the relationship. So, you end up feeling like you are selling yourself short, and that’s no fun.
#6 Being too busy. Life has a habit of becoming busy. Between work, school, socializing, hot yoga, manicures, pedicures, and everything else, life can move quickly. Sometimes, even if a relationship isn’t satisfying you, there can be a temptation to stay in it, simply because you are too busy to start dating again.
Dating takes time and energy. But then again, so do relationships. Wouldn’t it be a whole lot easier to spend your time and energy finding someone who’s right for you, instead of spending that same amount of effort to make a mediocre relationship survive?
#7 Guilt. Getting out of a relationship can mean hurting your partner when you break up. For some people, this is hard to do. It also doesn’t help if your partner guilt trips you with sad texts and Facebook statuses. But no relationship will ever survive if it’s based solely on guilt. You’d be accused of being a worse person if you stick around and string your partner along, despite the fact that you’ve wanted to get out for a long time.
#8 Not wanting to admit you were wrong. Occasionally when you start dating someone, your friends will tell you that he is “definitely not right for you.” But you don’t care, because it’s your life, and you’ll do what you want. However, four months later, you realize that everything they said was actually right, and you were wrong. Facing up to this reality can be a bit embarrassing. But it can also be necessary. So, just brace yourself for some annoying, “I told you so’s,” and you’ll get through it.
#9 Sexual attraction. Despite the fact that your partner may be an emotional wet blanket, he or she may still be a total hottie. So, while your partner might not be meeting your emotional needs, your physical needs might still be getting met to the fullest. Although good in the short term, in the long term, this type of situation can be a trap. Watch out for this.
#10 Everyone else likes your partner. The opinions of friends and family can have a significant impact on decision making. If everyone around you likes the person whom you are dating, and they tell you to stay with that person, then it can definitely affect how you feel about the situation.
For example, say that your best friend tells you that he or she thinks you should stay with your current partner. That is most likely going to have some influence on your decision to stay with your partner or not. The more people around you who like the person, the more difficult it can be to break up with him or her, even if you know that it’s the right thing to do.
#11 You think your partner might change. From time to time, you might date someone whom you like, but who has certain qualities that you wish were different. Hoping and waiting for these qualities to change can be a dead end. People usually don’t change, unless they want to change, and expecting them to do so for you is a tricky path to take.
#12 You are waiting for them to propose. The allure of having the ultimate commitment, marriage, as a part of your life can tempt you into staying with a person when you should just move on. Perhaps you think that if you could just get married, then everything would be worth it. You want a beautiful wedding, stability, and let’s not forget that fabulous diamond ring, so you overlook the fact that he isn’t ready for marriage.
Staying with someone who isn’t ready for marriage out of a hope that he will propose one day, is a risky gamble to take. Meanwhile, your perfect Mr. Right, who is ready and willing to give you the fairytale happy ending that you are looking for, could be waiting just around the corner. Do you really want to keep waiting on Mr. Commitment Issues.
Settling is a disease that plagues many an unhappy relationship. If you know for a fact that your relationship is doomed, cut the cord now, instead of prolonging your pain. Don’t wait on a miracle to cure your relationship!
Your Spouse is Unemployed Or Lazy? Here are The 7 Things You need To Do Now
Individuals experience harsh fixes in their lives at times. Yet, in what manner would you be able to manage a partner who would like to make a move?
Never again is your partner getting up in the morning brilliant and early when you do. Less of their time is spent scanning employment locales, and a greater amount of their time is spent before the TV watching Seasons. You've begun getting back home to a muddled house, considering how on earth it even arrived in such a state.
Possibly they've been attempting to look for some kind of employment, and doing all that they can to stay positive and cheery, yet after every dismissal, your partner has gradually begun to surrender.
As opposed to getting frantic, you keep on keeping quiet, not saying anything, on the grounds that you would prefer not to bother your spouse for being unemployed or being lazy. At the same time, you can't stick a sock in it perpetually, correct?
How do spur your partner to get up and discover a vocation
At the expense of seeming like a bother, you in the long run need to get your partner to move and begin searching for work. Here's the manner by which you can do that.
#1 Set objectives. In the event that your spouse is unemployed, its essential that they stay propelled, notwithstanding when your partner can't discover any inspiration. It's so natural to get in a droop. That is to say, simply consider that it is so difficult to rouse yourself to go to the exercise center when you can concoct such a large number of reasons. One incredible approach to handle your better half being unemployed is to situated objectives together. Transform it into to some degree an amusement.
For instance, make it a need for you both to make the bed together when you get up in the morning. On the other hand have them set an objective of what number of employment applications they need to apply to every day. I once read some place that you ought to convey 25 basic messages a day. Begin with a less overpowering number, similar to 5, then climb to ten as every day passes. With each effectively sent email, give your partner a prize like their most loved dinner or even sex!
#2 Help. A couple of years prior, I began my excursion as a business person, and would get back home to discover my now-life partner consummating his portfolio. 6 months passed and he was all the while "consummating," which is the point at which I understood the main way he was going to verge on discovering a vocation in his field was whether I helped light a flame under his butt.
As a modern originator, he's a stickler. He didn't comprehend searching for employments before making his portfolio work consummately consummate. This is the place I came in. I am a to a great degree quick typer, quick peruser, outstanding at sealing presentation documents, and anything authoritative. So I made a difference.
I would get back home from running my errands, doing entrepreneurial things, and sit with him on the lounge chair, searching all the employment opportunities we could conceivably discover, and essentially help compose each presentation document and occupation application he conveyed.
By doing this, it made him vigorous, and it made him feel more sure. It was something so basic that I had neglected, however it had all the effect, and after one month, he did indeed, get his fantasy work.
#3 Assign tasks. In the event that your spouse isn't unemployed, yet they are lazy, then now is the ideal time for you to dole out errands. You both ought to part errands around the house, and rationally realize that one of you will dependably be responsible for taking out the junk, doing clothing, vacuuming, cleaning the lavatory, and so forth. Alternately in the event that you cook supper, then they need to do the dishes, and the other way around.
Having doled out errands helps put both of you into a schedule, without needing to truly consider who does what around the house. It can give your partner an awareness of other's expectations, hence propelling them to get up off the lounge chair and really do something.
#4 Stop supplying. In case you're the person who typically does the shopping for food, just to get back home to no home-cooked suppers on the grounds that your spouse anticipates that you will handle that as well, then now is the ideal time to change the groove you've let yourself and your spouse get into. One simple approach to settle this lazy conduct is to quit giving the sustenance, and quit agonizing over the ice chest being supplied.
Rather, offer to leave your card with them the accompanying day, and let them realize that you'd like for them to do the shopping for food and cooking while you're slaving endlessly at work. Clearly, don't begin treating your spouse like a colleague, however have a go at doing this in a sensitive manner. It'll likewise issue them something to do, and who knows, they may really be decent at it!
#5 Get moving. On the off chance that your spouse is lazy, particularly in the matter of being dynamic, now is the right time to alter that. Remind your partner that you need both of you to carry on with a long, solid life, and lounging around throughout the day won't do that. On the off chance that they loathe setting off to the rec center, you can rather go for a stroll in your neighborhood, ride bicycles, go for a climb or set out for some swimming.
#6 Find a side interest. When somebody is unemployed, its imperative to keep searching for occupations and going on meetings, yet there will be respites where you truly don't have that much to do. There are just such a variety of scenes of The Price is Right a man can watch! An incredible approach to handle the respites amid unemployment is to discover a leisure activity that can involve your spouse's opportunity.
In the event that your spouse begins doing something imaginative a couple times each week, even once a week, it'll keep them dynamic, while likewise sharpening an expertise that may help them with discovering work. Having a side interest will help them allay the disappointment of not having the capacity to discover work just yet.
#7 Volunteer. This is an awesome thought for any individual who is unemployed and/or lazy. In case you're cooped up inside throughout the day, from human connection, its an easy decision you may begin to get discouraged, and lazier than you ever envisioned. One of the most ideal approaches to battle this is through philanthropy work. You don't have anything to lose and everything to pick up when you put yourself out there to help other individuals.
Putting grins on others' confronts additionally puts a grin all over. It's an awesome feeling when you have the capacity to help somebody, and realize that you may very well change somebody's life. So if your spouse has been lying on the lounge chair, the time is presently to issue them a major rude awakening. Help them to remember all the individuals on the planet who don't even have admittance to clean water, or don't even comprehend what laying on a sofa feels like or what a TV is. Re-acquaint your spouse with these individuals, and I promise you'll have the constructive, dynamic, playful individual you experienced passionate feelings for back quickly!
There are numerous elements adding to those unemployed. In the event that somebody is unemployed, they most likely feel debilitated, and naturally so. Requisitioning occupations and going to meetings is overwhelming. There are just such a large number of dismissals one individual can deal with.
Regardless of the fact that your partner feels demoralized and lazy about looking for some kind of employment, don't give them a chance to flounder in hopelessness, in light of the fact that that won't get them any closer to discovering a vocation. These tips can issue them back that feeling of reason, and in time, they can get move down and begin seeking over again.
Never again is your partner getting up in the morning brilliant and early when you do. Less of their time is spent scanning employment locales, and a greater amount of their time is spent before the TV watching Seasons. You've begun getting back home to a muddled house, considering how on earth it even arrived in such a state.
Possibly they've been attempting to look for some kind of employment, and doing all that they can to stay positive and cheery, yet after every dismissal, your partner has gradually begun to surrender.
As opposed to getting frantic, you keep on keeping quiet, not saying anything, on the grounds that you would prefer not to bother your spouse for being unemployed or being lazy. At the same time, you can't stick a sock in it perpetually, correct?
How do spur your partner to get up and discover a vocation
At the expense of seeming like a bother, you in the long run need to get your partner to move and begin searching for work. Here's the manner by which you can do that.
#1 Set objectives. In the event that your spouse is unemployed, its essential that they stay propelled, notwithstanding when your partner can't discover any inspiration. It's so natural to get in a droop. That is to say, simply consider that it is so difficult to rouse yourself to go to the exercise center when you can concoct such a large number of reasons. One incredible approach to handle your better half being unemployed is to situated objectives together. Transform it into to some degree an amusement.
For instance, make it a need for you both to make the bed together when you get up in the morning. On the other hand have them set an objective of what number of employment applications they need to apply to every day. I once read some place that you ought to convey 25 basic messages a day. Begin with a less overpowering number, similar to 5, then climb to ten as every day passes. With each effectively sent email, give your partner a prize like their most loved dinner or even sex!
#2 Help. A couple of years prior, I began my excursion as a business person, and would get back home to discover my now-life partner consummating his portfolio. 6 months passed and he was all the while "consummating," which is the point at which I understood the main way he was going to verge on discovering a vocation in his field was whether I helped light a flame under his butt.
As a modern originator, he's a stickler. He didn't comprehend searching for employments before making his portfolio work consummately consummate. This is the place I came in. I am a to a great degree quick typer, quick peruser, outstanding at sealing presentation documents, and anything authoritative. So I made a difference.
I would get back home from running my errands, doing entrepreneurial things, and sit with him on the lounge chair, searching all the employment opportunities we could conceivably discover, and essentially help compose each presentation document and occupation application he conveyed.
By doing this, it made him vigorous, and it made him feel more sure. It was something so basic that I had neglected, however it had all the effect, and after one month, he did indeed, get his fantasy work.
#3 Assign tasks. In the event that your spouse isn't unemployed, yet they are lazy, then now is the ideal time for you to dole out errands. You both ought to part errands around the house, and rationally realize that one of you will dependably be responsible for taking out the junk, doing clothing, vacuuming, cleaning the lavatory, and so forth. Alternately in the event that you cook supper, then they need to do the dishes, and the other way around.
Having doled out errands helps put both of you into a schedule, without needing to truly consider who does what around the house. It can give your partner an awareness of other's expectations, hence propelling them to get up off the lounge chair and really do something.
#4 Stop supplying. In case you're the person who typically does the shopping for food, just to get back home to no home-cooked suppers on the grounds that your spouse anticipates that you will handle that as well, then now is the ideal time to change the groove you've let yourself and your spouse get into. One simple approach to settle this lazy conduct is to quit giving the sustenance, and quit agonizing over the ice chest being supplied.
Rather, offer to leave your card with them the accompanying day, and let them realize that you'd like for them to do the shopping for food and cooking while you're slaving endlessly at work. Clearly, don't begin treating your spouse like a colleague, however have a go at doing this in a sensitive manner. It'll likewise issue them something to do, and who knows, they may really be decent at it!
#5 Get moving. On the off chance that your spouse is lazy, particularly in the matter of being dynamic, now is the right time to alter that. Remind your partner that you need both of you to carry on with a long, solid life, and lounging around throughout the day won't do that. On the off chance that they loathe setting off to the rec center, you can rather go for a stroll in your neighborhood, ride bicycles, go for a climb or set out for some swimming.
#6 Find a side interest. When somebody is unemployed, its imperative to keep searching for occupations and going on meetings, yet there will be respites where you truly don't have that much to do. There are just such a variety of scenes of The Price is Right a man can watch! An incredible approach to handle the respites amid unemployment is to discover a leisure activity that can involve your spouse's opportunity.
In the event that your spouse begins doing something imaginative a couple times each week, even once a week, it'll keep them dynamic, while likewise sharpening an expertise that may help them with discovering work. Having a side interest will help them allay the disappointment of not having the capacity to discover work just yet.
#7 Volunteer. This is an awesome thought for any individual who is unemployed and/or lazy. In case you're cooped up inside throughout the day, from human connection, its an easy decision you may begin to get discouraged, and lazier than you ever envisioned. One of the most ideal approaches to battle this is through philanthropy work. You don't have anything to lose and everything to pick up when you put yourself out there to help other individuals.
Putting grins on others' confronts additionally puts a grin all over. It's an awesome feeling when you have the capacity to help somebody, and realize that you may very well change somebody's life. So if your spouse has been lying on the lounge chair, the time is presently to issue them a major rude awakening. Help them to remember all the individuals on the planet who don't even have admittance to clean water, or don't even comprehend what laying on a sofa feels like or what a TV is. Re-acquaint your spouse with these individuals, and I promise you'll have the constructive, dynamic, playful individual you experienced passionate feelings for back quickly!
There are numerous elements adding to those unemployed. In the event that somebody is unemployed, they most likely feel debilitated, and naturally so. Requisitioning occupations and going to meetings is overwhelming. There are just such a large number of dismissals one individual can deal with.
Regardless of the fact that your partner feels demoralized and lazy about looking for some kind of employment, don't give them a chance to flounder in hopelessness, in light of the fact that that won't get them any closer to discovering a vocation. These tips can issue them back that feeling of reason, and in time, they can get move down and begin seeking over again.
10 Signs Your Relationship Is Over I mean OVER
Sometimes it can be difficult to spot the signs that your relationship is over. Maybe things aren't as good as they used to be. Perhaps one of you has been unhappy recently and you can't figure out why. Here are 10 signs that your relationship is over.
1. Who Are You?
When you first started dating, there was no subject that was off-limits. You and your man could talk all day and all night long. He was your best friend and the person you called multiple times a day. Now, trying to have a conversation with him is worse than having your teeth pulled.
2. Bye Bye Sex
Has your man lost interest in sex... with you? You put on your sexiest lingerie, but just he isn't interested. Does he tell you that he's not in the mood or that he's tired or had a long day? If you can't remember the last time you got busy between the sheets, you're about to embark on a really long dry spell, which is one of the main signs that your relationship is over.
3. Orgasm Who?
When the relationship was just beginning, you were having orgasms around the clock. They were so frequent that you thought life couldn't get any better. You were literally in sex heaven. Now, you don't remember the last time you had one. An orgasm is a woman's way of connecting with her man. If there's no orgasm, there's no connection. Realize it might be time to say goodbye to your relationship.
4. Call Me!
The roles have reversed. In the beginning he used to call you, text you and send you cute love notes all the time. Now, you're the one constantly calling him. What happened? His heart just isn't in the relationship anymore.
5. Shower Time
Has your man been taking really long showers? He's in there for a while and you wonder what he could possibly be doing? If his long shower time has become a routine, he's probably not just rinsing off...
6. Where'd The Fun Go?
When you first met, your boyfriend was Mr. Romantic. He loved surprising you with home-cooked dinner nights and incredible vacations. Now, trying to get him to take you on a date is practically impossible.
7. Hey, Friends
Have you been spending a lot of extra time with your friends? Is your man busy that you haven't seen him in weeks? Red flag.
8. Work, Work, Work
Is your boyfriend turning into a workaholic? He always spent a lot of time at the office, but now he seems to have work events every other night. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it sounds like he's avoiding you.
9. Forget Me Not
Does he seem really absent-minded these days? Does he forget all special occasions like holidays and anniversaries? Perhaps he's trying to send you little subconscious hints that he doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore.
10. World War III
Does it feel like you're fighting a war in your personal life? If you and your partner are always at each other's throats, something is clearly wrong. It's common for couples to fight. If they didn't, make-up sex wouldn't be as much fun as it is. But there's a fine line between healthy fighting and fighting incessantly with no resolution.
If your life sounds anything like this article, it's time to make a change. You're too good to settle for anything but the best.
1. Who Are You?
When you first started dating, there was no subject that was off-limits. You and your man could talk all day and all night long. He was your best friend and the person you called multiple times a day. Now, trying to have a conversation with him is worse than having your teeth pulled.
2. Bye Bye Sex
Has your man lost interest in sex... with you? You put on your sexiest lingerie, but just he isn't interested. Does he tell you that he's not in the mood or that he's tired or had a long day? If you can't remember the last time you got busy between the sheets, you're about to embark on a really long dry spell, which is one of the main signs that your relationship is over.
3. Orgasm Who?
When the relationship was just beginning, you were having orgasms around the clock. They were so frequent that you thought life couldn't get any better. You were literally in sex heaven. Now, you don't remember the last time you had one. An orgasm is a woman's way of connecting with her man. If there's no orgasm, there's no connection. Realize it might be time to say goodbye to your relationship.
4. Call Me!
The roles have reversed. In the beginning he used to call you, text you and send you cute love notes all the time. Now, you're the one constantly calling him. What happened? His heart just isn't in the relationship anymore.
5. Shower Time
Has your man been taking really long showers? He's in there for a while and you wonder what he could possibly be doing? If his long shower time has become a routine, he's probably not just rinsing off...
6. Where'd The Fun Go?
When you first met, your boyfriend was Mr. Romantic. He loved surprising you with home-cooked dinner nights and incredible vacations. Now, trying to get him to take you on a date is practically impossible.
7. Hey, Friends
Have you been spending a lot of extra time with your friends? Is your man busy that you haven't seen him in weeks? Red flag.
8. Work, Work, Work
Is your boyfriend turning into a workaholic? He always spent a lot of time at the office, but now he seems to have work events every other night. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it sounds like he's avoiding you.
9. Forget Me Not
Does he seem really absent-minded these days? Does he forget all special occasions like holidays and anniversaries? Perhaps he's trying to send you little subconscious hints that he doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore.
10. World War III
Does it feel like you're fighting a war in your personal life? If you and your partner are always at each other's throats, something is clearly wrong. It's common for couples to fight. If they didn't, make-up sex wouldn't be as much fun as it is. But there's a fine line between healthy fighting and fighting incessantly with no resolution.
If your life sounds anything like this article, it's time to make a change. You're too good to settle for anything but the best.
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