Women have their share of flirty moves to reel men in, but do
those moves really work? Here’s our take on the flirty moves
that annoy guys the most.
those moves really work? Here’s our take on the flirty moves
that annoy guys the most.
Seduction is an art that has made a profitable impact on today's
society. There are numerous books, shows and articles that
teach men and women the art of flirting.
teach men and women the art of flirting.
There are ways to flirt
to get into a serious relationship, and there are ways to do it just to get some booty – female or otherwise.
to get into a serious relationship, and there are ways to do it just to get some booty – female or otherwise.
How do people flirt?
What really constitutes as proper flirting? Is there a set of rules
that people should adhere to? Or should people just go with the
flow and see what works? For women, flirting is usually
unnecessary, because men are more likely to initiate it. There
are times, however, when a woman needs to do the flirting.
that people should adhere to? Or should people just go with the
flow and see what works? For women, flirting is usually
unnecessary, because men are more likely to initiate it. There
are times, however, when a woman needs to do the flirting.
When a girl feels like she’s not getting enough attention, she will
turn to drastic measures that may or may not work, just to get a guy that she likes. Those moves are borne out of the media’s influence and the environment in which they are accustomed to.
Some flirty moves are limited only to a specific age bracket.
turn to drastic measures that may or may not work, just to get a guy that she likes. Those moves are borne out of the media’s influence and the environment in which they are accustomed to.
Some flirty moves are limited only to a specific age bracket.
Some moves can only be done by professional women. Some
moves aren’t even allowed in some cultures and religions. There
are thousands of ways a woman can flirt, but some moves are
timeless. Here are some of those most famous and effective
moves:
moves aren’t even allowed in some cultures and religions. There
are thousands of ways a woman can flirt, but some moves are
timeless. Here are some of those most famous and effective
moves:
#1 Eye contact. You start by catching a man’s eye. Hold it for a
second. Look away. Catch his eye again, but this time for a few
seconds longer. Works every time.
second. Look away. Catch his eye again, but this time for a few
seconds longer. Works every time.
#2 Buying him a drink. Getting a free drink does not emasculate
a man. They actually welcome it! Not only are they being
pampered by a potential female partner, you have also given
them a green light, which means the probability of being
rejected by you is at its slimmest.
a man. They actually welcome it! Not only are they being
pampered by a potential female partner, you have also given
them a green light, which means the probability of being
rejected by you is at its slimmest.
#3 Complimenting them. Men are inherently proud beings. If
you compliment them on ANYTHING at all, they will love it.
you compliment them on ANYTHING at all, they will love it.
#4 Smile. This is the best flirty move ever invented. A smile can
show a multitude of positive emotions like warmth, friendliness,
openness and even sultriness.
show a multitude of positive emotions like warmth, friendliness,
openness and even sultriness.
Those are pretty basic, and every person in the world knows that these methods work. But some women feel like they are
still lacking, even with these moves at their disposal. This leads them to do more incorrigible things that men find awkward at the best of times, and pretty annoying at their worst.
still lacking, even with these moves at their disposal. This leads them to do more incorrigible things that men find awkward at the best of times, and pretty annoying at their worst.
Flirty moves that guys hate
Admittedly, these moves used to work on the simplest of minds, but people have more depth these days. Superficiality is
only reserved for modern-day hook-ups and casual affairs. If you really want to reel in a guy for a possible relationship, we advise you to avoid doing these flirty moves:
Admittedly, these moves used to work on the simplest of minds, but people have more depth these days. Superficiality is
only reserved for modern-day hook-ups and casual affairs. If you really want to reel in a guy for a possible relationship, we advise you to avoid doing these flirty moves:
#1 Arranging your boobs. This is only okay if it’s an emergency.
There will always be a bathroom within a 50-meter radius, or at
least a dark, secluded corner where you can put your girls back
in their place.
There will always be a bathroom within a 50-meter radius, or at
least a dark, secluded corner where you can put your girls back
in their place.
Arranging your boobs in public shows a lack of class and social
etiquette. Not only that, but guys do not find that sexy at all.
When you do start cupping yourself and moving your boobs
around, it actually makes them feel as awkward as the old
couple sitting behind you.
etiquette. Not only that, but guys do not find that sexy at all.
When you do start cupping yourself and moving your boobs
around, it actually makes them feel as awkward as the old
couple sitting behind you.
#2 Licking your lips suggestively. Licking your lips for esthetic
purposes is pleasing. Licking your lips as if your date is a huge
bowl of ice cream is not. Most of the time, that move scares
guys into thinking you are going to mow them down and eat
them alive once you’re alone together. It can be enticing
sexually, but it is usually discomforting in a social setting.
purposes is pleasing. Licking your lips as if your date is a huge
bowl of ice cream is not. Most of the time, that move scares
guys into thinking you are going to mow them down and eat
them alive once you’re alone together. It can be enticing
sexually, but it is usually discomforting in a social setting.
#3 Asking for help when it’s not needed. The damsel-in-distress
routine is pretty overrated these days. Guys want to help you
when you really need them or if it feels like the right thing to do.
Acting as if a simple problem is an emergency will turn them off
at the thought of helping you.
Guys like women who are independent enough to take care of
themselves, but are also not too proud to ask for help when
they really need it.
routine is pretty overrated these days. Guys want to help you
when you really need them or if it feels like the right thing to do.
Acting as if a simple problem is an emergency will turn them off
at the thought of helping you.
Guys like women who are independent enough to take care of
themselves, but are also not too proud to ask for help when
they really need it.
#4 Incessant hair-flipping. I’m talking about hair-flipping as a
mannerism. It’s distracting. It looks pretentious. It ruins the
food on the table. It hurts when it hits a guy’s face. Unless
you’re in a shampoo commercial, try to hold back the hair-
flipping unless absolutely necessary.
mannerism. It’s distracting. It looks pretentious. It ruins the
food on the table. It hurts when it hits a guy’s face. Unless
you’re in a shampoo commercial, try to hold back the hair-
flipping unless absolutely necessary.
#5 Playful pinching, punching, slapping, etc. You think it looks
cute when you do that? Hell. No. Guys don’t say it out loud, but
they absolutely hate it when girls physically hurt them in public
or otherwise. Pain is pain no matter who inflicts it. Can you
imagine the amount of self-control it takes to keep from
“playfully” hitting or slapping you back?
cute when you do that? Hell. No. Guys don’t say it out loud, but
they absolutely hate it when girls physically hurt them in public
or otherwise. Pain is pain no matter who inflicts it. Can you
imagine the amount of self-control it takes to keep from
“playfully” hitting or slapping you back?
#6 Batting their eyelashes. It’s cute, in theory, but most guys
are disconcerted with girls who bat their eyelashes constantly.
It’s a one-time move, not a quirky attribute you can own up to.
It usually looks like you have something in your eye, and a guy
can’t help but want to blow some air into it. Most of the time,
this move can be distracting instead of enticing.
are disconcerted with girls who bat their eyelashes constantly.
It’s a one-time move, not a quirky attribute you can own up to.
It usually looks like you have something in your eye, and a guy
can’t help but want to blow some air into it. Most of the time,
this move can be distracting instead of enticing.
#7 Following guys around. You’re not in second grade anymore.
If you keep following a guy around, it will only annoy them. The
worst that could happen is that they will see right through your
ploy and pity you for being so desperate and needy. Stop
following guys around, and just say what’s on your mind.
Remember that there is a pretty thin line between being an
admirer and a stalker.
If you keep following a guy around, it will only annoy them. The
worst that could happen is that they will see right through your
ploy and pity you for being so desperate and needy. Stop
following guys around, and just say what’s on your mind.
Remember that there is a pretty thin line between being an
admirer and a stalker.
#8 Eating out of guys’ plates. Ladies, ask first or wait until a
guy offers you their food. There is just something iffy about a
person suddenly taking food out of your plate. If you’ve been
dating for a while, it’s usually okay. When you do this with
someone you’re not intimate with, it could end pretty badly.
guy offers you their food. There is just something iffy about a
person suddenly taking food out of your plate. If you’ve been
dating for a while, it’s usually okay. When you do this with
someone you’re not intimate with, it could end pretty badly.
#9 Trying to talk about a guy’s interests and failing. Most men
think it’s cute when girls like the same things they do. When a
girl tries very hard to look like she likes the same stuff, it totally
backfires. Men want you to ask and learn about their interests.
They don’t want you to dish out facts and statistics, without
knowing what the hell you are talking about.
think it’s cute when girls like the same things they do. When a
girl tries very hard to look like she likes the same stuff, it totally
backfires. Men want you to ask and learn about their interests.
They don’t want you to dish out facts and statistics, without
knowing what the hell you are talking about.
#10 Guilt-tripping. Pouting and huffing may be cute to look at,
but men look at it as a mentally taxing power play. Even if all
you want is a little bit of attention, most guys resent the fact
that you’re guilt-tripping them for it. Your little tantrum just
ends up ruining their night – and yours as well, if they don’t
give in to you.
but men look at it as a mentally taxing power play. Even if all
you want is a little bit of attention, most guys resent the fact
that you’re guilt-tripping them for it. Your little tantrum just
ends up ruining their night – and yours as well, if they don’t
give in to you.
If you really want a guy to like you, we suggest being honest
and straightforward about it. If a guy doesn’t like you, it’s
better to find out about it from the source, as opposed to
discovering it from a failed attempt at flirting. Rather than
trying to flirt with guys using immature and outdated methods,
try doing it the normal way – by being nice and approachable
and straightforward about it. If a guy doesn’t like you, it’s
better to find out about it from the source, as opposed to
discovering it from a failed attempt at flirting. Rather than
trying to flirt with guys using immature and outdated methods,
try doing it the normal way – by being nice and approachable
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